Wan's disgruntlement faded a little - only a little - and his posture relaxed as he looked away before putting a hand on his hip and sighing, "Look, Valdis means a lot to me and I know I mean a lot to her. She and Zuko are almost as close to me as my actual soulmate and our reincarnations and I wouldn't hurt her by promising her something I couldn't give. But if she was upset with me, she'd make it known. So while I'm glad you care enough to be protective of her, I think you should talk to her before making those sort of conclusions again."